Monthly Archives: March 2009

Malayali Miracle: Observations by a US reporter

Matt Schwarzfeld is a Freelance writer and reporter from US now travelling across India. He has made some exemplary observations about Malayail's which he found during his brief stint at Kerala. Worth reading.

http://www.honkokplease.com/2009/02/malayali-miracle-introduction.html

http://www.honkokplease.com/2009/02/malayali-miracle-part-1-rural-village.html


Other interesting read:

http://www.gla.ac.uk/kerala/index.htm

Dr Pamela Clayton (Department of Adult and Continuing Education,University of Glasgow), November 2006

Report of research undertaken November 2005 – October 2006


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Say always what you feel, not what you think

Gabriel Garcia Marquez is a famous writer from Columbia. He is a Nobel Peace prize winner for literature and is undoubtedly a genius.  He has retired from public life for reasons of health. He has a form of cancer which is terminal. He has sent a farewell letter to all his friends and it has been circulated around the Internet. It is recommended reading because it is moving to see how one of the best and most brilliant of writers expresses himself and with sorrow. It is so introspective about life’s choices; and I want to share this with you. 

HE SAYS: 

If God, for a second, forgot what I have become and granted me a little bit more of life, I would use it to the best of my ability. I wouldn’t possibly say everything that is in my mind, but I would be more thoughtful of all I say.  

I would give merit to things not for what they are worth, but for what they mean to express. I would sleep little, I would dream more, because I know that for every minute that we close our eyes, we waste 60 seconds of light. I would walk while others stop; I would awake while others sleep. 

If God would give me a little bit more of life, I would dress in a simple manner. I would place myself in front of the sun, leaving not only my body, but my soul naked at its mercy. To all men I would say how mistaken they are when they think that they stop falling in love when they grow old, without knowing that they grow old when they stop falling in love. 

I would give wings to children, but I would leave it to them to learn how to fly by themselves. To old people I would say that death doesn’t arrive when they grow old, but with forgetfulness. 

I have learned so much with you all, I have learned that everybody wants to live on top of the mountain, without knowing that true happiness is obtained in the journey taken and the form used to reach the top of the hill. I have learned that when a newborn baby holds, with its little hand,  
his father’s finger, it has trapped him for the rest of his life. I have learned that a man has the right and obligation to look down at another man, only when that man needs help to get up from the ground.
 

Say always what you feel, not what you think. If I knew that today is the last time that I am going to see you asleep, I would hug you with all my strength and I would pray to the Lord to let me be the guardian angel of your soul. If I knew that these are the last moments to see you, I would say ‘I love you’. There is always tomorrow, and life gives us another  opportunity to do things right; but in case I am wrong, and today is all that is left to me, I would love to tell you how much I love you and that I will never forget you. 

Tomorrow is never guaranteed to anyone, young or old. Today could be the last time to see your loved ones, which is why you mustn’t wait; do it today, in case tomorrow never arrives. I am sure you will be sorry you wasted the opportunity today to give a smile, a hug, a kiss, and that you were too busy to grant them their last wish. 

Keep your loved ones near you; tell them in their ears and to their faces how much you need them and love them. Love them and treat them well; take your time to tell them ‘I am sorry’; ‘forgive me’, ‘please’, ‘thank you’, and all those loving words you know. 

Nobody will know you for your secret thought. Ask the Lord for wisdom and strength to express them. Show your friends and loved ones how important they are to you. 

Send this letter to those you love. If you don’t do it today…tomorrow will 
be like yesterday; and if you never do it, it doesn’t matter, either, the moment to do it is now.
 

For you, with much love,  

Your Friend  

Gabriel Garcia Marquez.

P.S: Though am not sure how credible this letter is, couldn’t resist sharing such a thoughtful letter.